It’s you VS you.
You find yourself:
- Telling yourself ‘I will be happy when…’
- Just wanting to pull the cover over your head and stay home
- Thinking that ‘there’s nothing I can do about it (whatever that is)!’
- Complaining, constantly frustrated
- Get triggered by the ‘small’ stuffs and blow things out of proportion
- Sweeping things under the rug, ‘I don’t want to deal with it.’
- Comparing yourself to others feeling resentful and jealous
- Believing that life is hard and most people can’t be trusted
- Feeling worried and fearful when you think about the future
- (And this is a big one!) Thinking ‘no one understands me’
You want to:
- See yourself more clearly: who you are, why you are who you are
- See others more clearly
- Learn new ways to respond
- Know your existing strengths and leverage on them
- Know that the parts of you that you: don’t like/feel embarrassed about/never wanted others to know, are not only acceptable but others have them too!
- Build better relationships
- Achieve what you always want to, but never started
What I will do for you:
- I spend the kind of quality time with you that will make you go ‘there’s someone who sees me, who is willing to understand me, who won’ t judge even when I show her the real me, and who trust and believe in me even when I doubt myself’
- I listen to your BS, tell you that it is BS, and listen some more
- I show you there’s more, there’s a different way, there’s a better way
- I empower you to make the choices you want
- I enable you to be accountable, ultimately, to yourself; to have extreme ownership, for yourself
- I urge you to take actions, to make mistakes and to learn from them
- I witness you to be the person you are, have the relationships you want to have, and live the life you envision to live
- I celebrate you, with you
It might feel like you VS you, it is really you AND you, with me on your side.
Ready to reflect, ideate, choose and be accountable? When shall we begin?