There’s me, there’s you and there’s us.

You find yourself:

• Feeling lonely, wondering whether you will ever find that someone
• Doubting whether you and your partner are really compatible
• Have ‘outgrown’ your partner, or changed ‘significantly’ for whatever reasons
• Feeling bored in or with your relationship
• Being disappointed in your expectations
• Wanting more support from your partner
• Exhausted, ‘everybody wants a piece of me!’
• Feeling like ‘We never talk about important matters!’
• Feeling like ‘We are constantly fighting over the same s**t but not going anywhere!’

You want to:

• Know whether ‘soulmate’ exists
• Feel loved, respected, and desired (they are very different things!)
• Know that you can have different opinions and still being accepted
• Fight fairly and smartly
• Communicate your needs clearly
• Know how to say no, and set boundaries
• Get out of your routines and feel alive in your relationships

What I will do for you:

• I focus on long term strategies not short term easy fixes
• I engage you in a guided process of self-discovery and reflection to understand your needs
• I teach you to communicate compassionately and effectively your preferences, and your fear
• I get you to talk about old difficulties in new ways
• I give you tools and tactics to manage your anger, and your conflicts
• I open up new, refreshing and rewarding ways for you to reconnect with each other and to your relationship
• I explore with you fresh insights to break your routines

In a relationship, there’s me, there’s you and there’s us.

‘I want to love you without clutching, appreciate you without judging, join you without invading, invite you without demanding, leave you without guilt, criticize you without blaming, and help you without insulting. If I can have the same from you, then we can truly meet and enrich each other.’—Virginia Satir

Ready to reflect, ideate, choose and be accountable? When shall we begin?